who made me a mom

These two made me a mom and I feel so blessed I get to have them in my life. Here are a couple photos I took in my garage last weekend when I popped up an old, wrinkled backdrop for the fun of it. Just love these guys so much!

Miles is watching his dad juggle, hence his little crossed arms.

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John made me feel so special this mother’s day weekend and he really got the kids into making it a wonderful day for me. Thank you John for all that you guys did for me and for staying up until 1 AM on Saturday night making me your amazing cinnamon rolls. Love being a team with you!!!

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Happy Mother’s day everyone! Hope it was a blessed day for you. Much love!

May 14, 2012 - 7:42 am

Tina - Happy Mother’s Day! Hope you had a great one:)

beverage wars: a confession & challenge to myself

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Being a child of the 80′s (born in the, ahem, mid 70′s) I prefer my beverages to be fruit flavored. Plain water? I guess that’s what I had out of drinking fountains. Growing up, my BFF’s and I would drink pitchers of red, purple and green Kool-Aid, Capri-Sun’s (sucked down in seconds) and of course, my teen years were spent sucking down Mountian Dew’s by the jugfull to stay awake during long afternoons of lifeguarding shifts. Needless to say, my tastebuds grew accustomed to being entertained over the years.

These days, as a mom of two with her own biz, my beverage of choice is coffee. Yes, I’m making this confession that I’m pretty sure I’m drinking more coffee than water on some days. (That is SO BAD!) It’s like I’m getting negative hydration since caffeine is a diuretic. If I do drink something else, it’s juice, snuck secretly so the kids won’t ask for it. (Thankfully my kids are great water drinkers, though that’s because I hide sweet drinks from them.)

So I KNOW that water is the best choice, but I just stink at drinking it. I know that drinking more water is what I NEED to do to be healthier, have more energy and look better, but when it comes right down to it, coffee is what I’m reaching for. So I’m coming out with this confession in an attempt to better myself this summer and trade in the coffee for water.

Wish me luck guys! Anybody else out there a terrible water drinker? Anybody else think they might be drinking more coffee than water on most days?

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This photo was taken on a particularly sleepy morning this past winter when my coffee maker was on the fritz. I appear to be personality plus without my coffee, don’t I?

May 11, 2012 - 2:59 pm

Sherry Smith - I need more water also.. a really cold beer is my preference, when really thirsty..

May 11, 2012 - 4:20 pm

Dana - Betsy! I swear I could have written this exact same post. Its tough to suck down water and I hide it from my kiddo too. If you find the secret to getting more water, pls share! :)

May 11, 2012 - 6:00 pm

Jill - You mean the water that filters through the Keurig to make my coffee doesn’t count towards my water intake? Oh boy. I’m absolutely terrible about drinking enough water– I should definitely join you!

May 11, 2012 - 9:02 pm

Nat - Yep—except for the hair, Joss looks like you.

May 11, 2012 - 9:41 pm

Corey Monroe - yep. i’m the same way. i never drink water. i just don’t like to. coffee is my drink of choice. i drank ice water like crazy when i was pregnant with my last 2 kids; i actually craved it lol. i need to start drinking it now

May 12, 2012 - 12:25 am

angela - I’m a terrible water drinker, too. Spring/Summer it’s easier because it’s warmer. I HAVE to have lots of ice in my cup & it helps to have an auto ice maker in the fridge door. I like my Tervis 24 oz cup (got mine at BB&Beyond) and bring it with me in the car. Also, as a budget friendly plan I started asking for water at restaurants. Don’t feel too bad- I’ve had a bad jag w/ Dr Pepper lately and it’s full of the ugly addicting stuff! :) I like your doodles they made me smile!!!

May 12, 2012 - 8:52 am

Jennifer K - HAHA @ your mom’s comment! Love it!!

Betsy you need to try the La Croix water. They are so good! I love every flavor we have tried so far. It always makes me feel like I’m being a little rebellious when I drink one. ;o)

May 12, 2012 - 9:30 am

angela young - Just think about all the money you will save by drinking less coffee!! I love, love your blog. :)

May 12, 2012 - 11:08 am

Tina - Soda is my big weakness – I could drink it all day long and not get sick of it, and it’s tough for me to limit myself to one a day! I used to be a big water drinker – it is true the more you drink it, the more you want it – but somehow I fell of the water wagon lately!

May 14, 2012 - 1:16 pm

Laura - I love coffee. I used to work at Starbucks and I am addicted. I have recently discovered Crystal Light: Drink mix on the go. They are delicious and I find myself drinking more water than I normally would.

May 14, 2012 - 5:25 pm

Melissa Jean - I definitely drink more coffee than water – or I used to. It’s hard to drink water most days, but I’ve found drinking from a straw helps me drink more water. I think I’m orally fixated, so I drink without realizing it!

this girl is crazy!

I was snapping pics this weekend and couldn’t help but capture our crazy girl climbing up my husband’s car. She keeps me on my TOES! People keep asking me if I’m keeping busy and I hesitate for a moment, not sure if they mean business wise, or chasing Joss!

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May 9, 2012 - 12:52 pm

Tira J - She’s got places to go and people to see!

self portrait series: maypril

April came and went without a photo taken of me, so I thought I would try a little “Maypril” self portrait. I have always loved how dreamy light is coming into a garage, but knowing how messy my garage is, I knew I wanted to pop up a quick backdrop as well. On days that I have had the time to do this, it’s been too cold out, but this weekend, I had a few minutes of time plus a warm day, so I popped up a wrinkled old paper backdrop and tried some experimenting with my husband. My kids are IMPOSSIBLE to photograph, but I was able to grab my kiddos for a few shots of me with them.

Oh and by the way, this did not start out as a portrait as myself! This is me/us in lazy Sunday afternoon, around the house mode. These portraits are really for my kids someday, so it’s good I don’t have make up on or my hair straightened, this is how I imagine they will remember me: no make up, beat up old jeans and my hair back in a bun/headband.

If I could send any message to the world right now, it’s that I’m just so crazy in love with my family. I love my kids so freakin much. I’m tired a lot, don’t always look my best and my house is a constant explosion of toy parts, but good gracious my family makes my heart explode.

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If your kid just wants to run away during photos, throw them on your back.

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That little monkey Miles is hilarious.

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Oh hey, this turned into a portrait of Jocelyn! That’s exactly what happens when I go shopping for myself…I end up shopping for Joss! Same happens when photos are taken. Ha!

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Stuff that happened in Maypril:

My birthday came on April first and my favorite gift was Disney on Ice with John and Miles. A BLAST!!!

Two fun commercial shoots in the studio. (One included prom dresses…SO FUN!)

Another visit out of town to hang out with photographer friends I never see. Always flies by and leaves me thankful for my friends from afar.

We got bikes and it was good. See previous post.

A very dear aunt of mine lost her husband after 52 years of marriage. My heart has been breaking for her this past month as she faces all the firsts that come along with her husband’s passing. It has stirred up a lot of emotions that I felt when I lost my own husband and deep compassion for her journey to her new life as as widow. It’s been an emotional month, but I’ve been really blessed to been able to spend a lot of time with her these past few weeks.

I just realized that there are TWO MORE weeks of preschool for Miles and then we are facing KINDERGARTEN in the fall. Good gracious, this is going to be the shortest summer EVER!! (Scary!)

I have to decide if I’m going to put Jocelyn in preschool next fall. I’m so torn. I want to keep her at home, but I know she would LOVE going to preschool. At the same time, I would love to put off preschool for another year to just keep her in our own little bubble. We’ll see…

That’s the latest with me! Nighty night!

May 8, 2012 - 1:11 am

Jen L - You are so beautiful just like this. I can just see the love you have for your kids. They will love to look back at these!! Need to do this myself :) and goodness that last photo of Jocelyn…she is so cute!

May 8, 2012 - 9:04 am

Sherry Smith - a treasure for sure! the entire family is so lucky to have you making a picture journal of life with Betsy!! love you so much.

May 8, 2012 - 9:26 am

gina - these are priceless! you are adorable and your children will cherish these forever!~gina

May 8, 2012 - 9:38 am

Amber - Beautiful! Thanks for the reminder that we all need to get on the other side of the lens. Your family is just adorable!

May 8, 2012 - 12:47 pm

Cassie - I love everything about this.

May 8, 2012 - 2:03 pm

Kathy Roberts - April – You were in a fashion show and you looked oh so beautiful!

life changing purchase (and one just for fun)

We FINALLY got bikes. For years we have been saying we need to get bikes, but excuses blew around our house like tumble weeds: Our garage was too small, the kids were in a weird stage for the bike carrier, the pugs needed walked more than we needed to ride. we didn’t have the extra cash. Bla, bla, bla.

We FINALLY got our bikes, just in time for Mother’s Day and Father’s Day all rolled into one and it’s been LIFE CHANGING. Life changing I tell you! It feels so good to exercise with our whole family, chat and see the neighborhood at the same time. On our first bike ride with the family, the kids just laughed and laughed in the carrier. That memory is right up there with Disney World, as one of the sweetest in my heart. The kids ask for a bike ride every night, even little Joss who says, “ride! RIDE!” It’s been awesome. Last night we rolled around the neighborhood trolling garage sales and it was a beautiful way to spend the evening.

YAY for wishes finally coming true! Here are some quick snaps of us the week we got our bikes. (BTW, I got mine first and then John came home from work to his surprise of a bike in the garage for him. As you can see, he was ECSTATIC!)

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Oh and of course there are garage sales, which I love, and having a bike just makes shopping even easier. Here’s our latest find for Miles:

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Oh and by the way, if you are thinking of hitting the open road, we got all our bike stuff at Target. We still need to encourage Miles to ride his own bike and work on his comfort level, but for now he’s been enjoying riding in the trailer. With kindergarten coming up and all this growing up so fast business, I haven’t minded keeping him little for a bit longer. (Even if it does mean I’m pulling an extra 40 lbs. behind my bike!)

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