my sister

I really wasn’t sure if I should blog tonight, but blogging is what I do and I need to try to keep some sense of normalcy right now.

Today I lost my sister Penny and I type this I still can’t believe it.

Penny (3)

My mind is swimming with memories of her with her kids, us as kids, the last things we talked about and how much she loved Miles. We are just numb with grief and disbelief.

Please pray for my family.

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  • KristinJanuary 27, 2008 - 10:41 pm

    Betsy,

    You and your family are in my prayers. Please let me know if Patrick and I can doing anything, anything at all.

  • Anne WoehnkerJanuary 27, 2008 - 10:42 pm

    Betsy, I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I don’t know what to say, there are no words.

  • CristiJanuary 27, 2008 - 10:55 pm

    Betsy, You are all in our prayers. Please let me know if I can help with Miles – you know I would love to. I am sooo sorry. Love,Cristi

  • JessicaJanuary 27, 2008 - 11:06 pm

    Betsy- I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. My heart is aching for you and your family. You will be in our thoughts and prayers. Again, I am so, so sorry.

  • bobbi+January 27, 2008 - 11:58 pm

    Such a beautiful person.

    I don’t even know what to say.

    Please don’t hesitate to ask us for anything… we’ll be there in a heartbeat.

    Love, bobbi

  • LindsayJanuary 28, 2008 - 7:07 am

    Betsy, I am speechless….I dont even know what to say….Please let me know if you need anything, and I meanANYTHING!!! A meal cooked, a house cleaned, a babysitter, or a good laugh. I am serious. I am here for you. I will br praying for you guys…. Love you, Lindsay

  • eyegirlJanuary 28, 2008 - 8:15 am

    Betsy,

    I am so very sorry!! You and John are in my thoughts. If there is anything at all I can do, just let me know.

    Michele

  • Leslie WebberJanuary 28, 2008 - 8:37 am

    Betsy, While I only know you through your beautiful work, my heart aches for you and your family. It seems you’ve endured so much loss in a short time span, and I am so sorry for all your hurt. My family will pray for yours.

  • ErinJanuary 28, 2008 - 10:28 am

    Betsy- I’m so heartbroken for you and your family. Sending love and peace to all of you. We’re here when you are ready for whatever you need. Love you, Erin and Kevin

  • Melissa HIllmanJanuary 28, 2008 - 10:31 am

    Betsy,

    I am thinking of you and your family. You all will be in my prayers.

  • HeatherJanuary 28, 2008 - 5:09 pm

    Betsy~ Oh my gosh, I dont even know what to say. I can’t even imagine how you are feeling. You and your family is in our hearts and prayers. Love, Heather Aguirre

  • LindseyJanuary 28, 2008 - 8:27 pm

    Oh Betsy, I am so sorry. We will be praying for you and your family.

    Lindsey, Christopher and Madalyn

  • KayJanuary 28, 2008 - 8:51 pm

    As a sister to 4, I cannot imagine your hurt nor can I imagine being able to wrap my brain around that kind of loss. Just to deep to fathom…my heart hurts for you. You are in my prayers. May God give you a peace that passes all understanding and a comfort like no other.

  • MelanieJanuary 28, 2008 - 11:32 pm

    Hi Betsy~ I found your beautiful blog through the Matilda Jane blog. You don’t know me, but after reading your incredibly sad news today, it felt rude to leave your blog without leaving a comment…I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I will pray that you & your family are filled with comfort & peace, and with joy in the memories of your dear sister. I’m sorry again.

  • Jennie SkeensJanuary 29, 2008 - 2:16 am

    Ya know, I am a devoted blog reader of Betsy’s and I am also her and Penny’s sister-in-law (since 1999). I leave many comments to let Bets know that I’m reading, but nothing replaces the times where we all are together and visiting and laughing. We all read Betsy’s words and we learn a lot from them. So, I guess what I am doing is using Betsy’s blog as an avenue to tell everyone who reads this to go visit your loved ones and tell them you love them. Tell them how they have impacted your life and how wonderful they are. The last time I spoke to Penny was on December 31st, 2007, she called me because she wanted my meatball recipe. And you know what…she still made the time to tell me that she loved me before I hung up the phone that day. She was very very full of love and kindness. Thank you Betsy, for blogging about your sister, although it was difficult. Betsy, Thanks for being you. You are so amazing and I love you. I’ll help you in anyway that you need; but you already know that. Love and Prayers, Jennie

  • LizJanuary 29, 2008 - 3:51 pm

    Betsy, my heart aches at the amount of loss you have dealt with in such a short period of time. It just doesn’t seem fair. I am impressed at how you’re talking/blogging about it to get some of these feelings out. I encourage you to continue to look at Miles for the joy and innocence that life brings. Yes, we will always know difficult days, but we will always know wonderful ones as well. Praying for you! Love, Liz, Nick & Stella

  • Connie Hansen (Erin's mom)January 29, 2008 - 5:26 pm

    Betsy, please accept my deepest sympathy for the loss of your dear sister. My thoughts and prayers are with you. May God give you the strength you need during this difficult time. Hold tight to your family, husband, son, and friends who love you so.

  • amanda reynoldsJanuary 30, 2008 - 11:04 am

    Betsy…you are in our thoughts and prayers. I’m so sorry that you have to go through this. May you find all of the comfort and peace you need at this time.